Many people are still unsure regarding timing for conception. I will deal with these facts in a question and answer format for easy reading.  We'll call this post, Getting Pregnant 101.

1. Can a woman get pregnant any time of the month?
No. A woman's fertile days to get pregnant are only for about 5 to 6 days out of the month.

2. What does ovulation have to do with getting pregnant?
Ovulation is the day on which a woman releases an egg that can be potentially fertilized if there are sperm waiting for it. Ovulation is the day that conception actually occurs. After the egg is released, it may live for 6 to 24 hours, but likely only up to 12. If it is not fertilized before it dies, it is discarded.

3. So how is a woman fertile for 5 to 6 days if ovulation only lasts one day at most?
During the few days preceding ovulation, a woman produces fertile cervical mucus that promotes the life and movement of sperm. Sperm can live in that fertile cervical mucus for days, waiting for ovulation to occur.

4. So what's important to remember if I want to know how to get pregnant faster?
You must make sure you have intercourse during your fertile window.

Identifying those fertile days to get pregnant involves learning to check and interpret your body's fertility signals. 

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For those who subscribe to the Most Fertile Days Email Club, you have learned that you can't get pregnant any time of the month.  In fact, you are only fertile for maybe up to 5 or 6 days out of the month.  During that small fertile window, we have to maximize our chances of pregnancy. 

In each ejaculate from a man, there are millions of sperm.  You'd think that since millions of sperm are released, a lot of them would be able to make their way into the cervix, up the uterus, and into the fallopian tubes where the egg is slowly making its journey on ovulation day.  According to Dr. E, the maker of Preseed, a sperm friendly lubricant, only thousands of the millions of sperm in ejaculate make it into the cervix, and of those only hundreds make it to the fallopian tubes!  If you haven't already, you may want to try the game, The Great Sperm Race.  It will help you appreciate Dr. E's observation. 

This news regarding how few sperm make it up to the fallopian tubes should impress us with how critical it is to make sure as much ejaculate has contact with the cervix as possible, to give those sperm a fighting chance to get up in there!  This is where the Instead Cup comes in on how to get pregnant faster.  It is actually a disposable menstrual cup, whose manufacturers do not endorse it being used for any other purpose but capturing menstrual flow.  But because this cup fits so neatly over the cervix, it actually is ideally suitable for holding ejaculate close to the cervix! 

This is how to get pregnant faster with the Instead Cup.  During your fertile window, after you have intercourse, insert the Instead Cup (as the instruction say to do) to hold the ejaculate close to the cervix.  Leave it in for about 30 minutes.  Since the Instead Cup is meant to be used for many hours, you may be able to safely leave it in overnight. 

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Resource:
Sperm Leaking Out: Lessons In Sperm Transport Through the Cervix  by Dr. E

There are 2 primary signs of ovulation, namely fertile quality cervical fluid and a soft, high cervix.  There are other possible symptoms of ovulation that you may or may not have. 

Cervical fluid monitoring can help you determine when you are approaching ovulation.  Your cervical mucus changes from an infertile quality to a fertile quality as you approach ovulation.  Infertile mucus may be rubbery, filmy, lotiony, or even gooey and be whitish in color.  But fertile cervical mucus is slimy, super wet, stretchy and often times clear or streaked clear. 

Your cervix is in the back of your vagina.  It has a little opening, so the face of it almost feels like a donut with an indentation instead of a hole.  If you check your cervix daily with a clean finger (why not check both cervical muucus and the cervix at the same time?), you will notice how it changes position and texture as you approach ovulation.  Namely, it gets harder and harder to reach the mouth.  It's position gets angled back when you are fertile.  This makes it easier for the sperm to be deposited at the mouth of the cervix during intercourse.  The mouth also loosens up and doesn't feel as tightly closed as before.  Right after ovulation, your cervix will come forward and be closed. 

Other symptoms of ovulation may include pain over your right or left ovary during ovulation, spotting at ovulation, and increased sex drive. 

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So you've heard that when you have egg white cervical mucus, that means you are fertile and approaching ovulation.  During that time, to optimize your chances for conception, you should have intercourse every other day.  What is cervical mucus and how do you monitor your cervical mucus throughout the month?

Cervical mucus (also called cervical fluid) seeps from your cervix and appears as discharge in your panties. When cervical fluid is fertile, that means it can support the life of sperm, which can live in fertile fluid for up to 5 days. You may have fertile fluid for up to 5 days right before ovulation day. If you have intercourse during any of those days, sperm can technically live in it until ovulation day when conception occurs.

How to Check your Cervical Fluid
In order to check your cervical fluid, you may be able to observe it from getting a sample from the outside on toilet paper or your finger.  The only way I can get a good sample is by inserting a clean finger in my vagina and swiping around in there. I do this while I am in the shower squatting.

Cervical Fluid Patterns Observed
Fertile cervical fluid is slimy, slippery, wet, stretchy and looks and feels like raw egg whites, hence the phrase "egg white cervical mucus".  Your cervical fluid is constantly changing throughout the month from one form into another, but it usually follow a particular pattern, namely it will go from infertile to fertile until ovulation.  Infertile mucus may be dry, rubbery, filmy, sticky.  Then it will transition into a more creamy, gooey, or wet consistency.  Then, you will develop the egg white cervical mucus.  On the day of ovulation or the day after, your mucus will usually dry up and look infertile again. 

Each woman needs to become familiar with her own body's pattern.  Below is my personal typical pattern.

• Right after my period is over, I am clean as a whistle for a couple of days.
• Then, I start to observe just a whitish-grayish film for a few days.
• Then the film gets thicker and whiter, another couple of days or so.
• Eventually, it's pretty white and gooey for a couple of days, but not stretchy or slimy.
• I may even have one day of film again randomly by the time I check my cervical fluid (which I only check once a day at night in the shower).
• Then the white goo starts to stretch between my fingers a little bit (half an inch) and is definitely slimy and wet for a couple of days.
• Then the slimy goo becomes very clear, more liquidy, and only streaked with white flecks. It stretches a lot, like 3 inches. It's super wet and slippery. This lasts for maybe up to 2 days.
• On ovulation day, by the time I check my cervical fluid, I have a clean finger again.
• The next day, when my basal body temperature (another fertility signal) rises, I have that filmy stuff again.

I would consider myself fertile from the time I had the slimy white goo that stretched 1/2 an inch till ovulation day when I dry up, which is the day before the basal body temperature rise.

I recommend that while you are still determining what your fertile fluid looks like that you just take very descriptive notes like I what I described above. Then after that cycle, you can look back and start to observe a little pattern.

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Even if your cycle length is 28 days, that does not mean you will ovulate on cycle day 14 because your luteal phase may not be 14 days long. Your luteal phase is the number of days between ovulation day and when your period starts again. The luteal phase length hardly changes. A normal luteal phase can be anywhere between 10 and 16 days. It must be at least 10 days in order to sustain a pregnancy (if you find that your luteal phase is less than 10 days, than you may need progesterone therapy.) Therefore, if you had a 28 day cycle, with a 10 day luteal phase, that means you ovulate on day 18! Or if you had a 28 day cycle with a 15 day luteal phase, that means that you ovulate on day 13. This is why you cannot rely on the calendar method and why so many that do, fail to get pregnant. Their cycle is not the "standard" 28 day cycle with a 14 day luteal phase.

You must check your basal body temperatures to determine the length of your luteal phase.  The fertility awareness method discusses how to check this and other fertility signals.  To learn how to check your luteal phase and discover when you are most fertile, sign up for our email club.  Get your free fertility e-report here.

There is a difference between fertile and ovulation.  Ovulation is when your body releases an egg that can be fertilized if a sperm penetrates it. When that egg is released, it usually lives for up to a day. That day is called Ovulation day. For several days just prior to ovulation, your body produces "fertile" cervical fluid. Sperm can survive in fertile cervical fluid. Therefore, you are fertile during the time that you have fertile cervical fluid up through the day of ovulation. Fertile cervical fluid is wet, slimy and slippery (and even stretchy) like egg whites or kind of like semen. I check my cervical fluid by inserting a clean finger in my vagina and swiping around in there while I am squatting in the shower. You get a good sample that way.

You must check your fertility signals to find out when you ovulate each month. Your cervical fluid will tell you that you are "approaching" ovulation. By checking your morning temperatures, you will confirm that ovulation indeed past.

To confirm that ovulation has past, you need to take your morning temperatures every morning before getting out of bed and observe at least a .2 degrees shift up in temperatures than any of the last six temperatures before it. My pre-ovulation temperatures usually run between 97.0 and 97.9. After ovulation, my temperatures usually jump up to between 98.1 and 98.4. You have to find out what's normal for you, but my temperatures are pretty "normal" and can give you an idea.

To achieve conception, strategically time intercourse to occur at least every other day during your "fertile" window and on ovulation day. In order to keep up with this, you must chart your findings on a fertility chart.

You will not know the length of your luteal phase until you know when you ovulated. Your luteal phase starts the day after ovulation and goes through the day before you start your period (day of bright red flow).

After ovulation is passed, you cannot get pregnant. Your luteal phase is when you experience "premenstrual" symptoms.

In order to determine your luteal phase, you need to track your basal body temperatures during the month. Take your temperature right when you wake up in the morning at the same time everyday (within an hour). Do not get out of bed (even to go to the bathroom) when you take your temperature. You will observe that before ovulation, your temperatures stay in a "low" range. After ovulation, you will notice your temperatures in a new "high" range. My low range is between 97.0 and 97.9. My high range is between 98.1 and 98.4.

The day you observe the thermal shift you can start counting as day 1 of your luteal phase. Once your period starts again, you count the day before as the last day of your luteal phase.

If things are normal, your luteal phase can be between 10 to 16 days. Usually it is between 10 to 14 days. Your luteal phase needs to be a minimum of 10 days in order for you to be able to sustain a pregnancy. Your luteal phase is not supposed to vary, but I have been tracking mine for over a year, and it has varied a little bit (between 12 and 13 days -- I had one weird cycle in which it was actually 10 days).

You may have a luteal phase defect if you have a short luteal phase, which may be indicative of a progesterone deficiency.  If you have been tracking your cycles and are coming up with less than 10 days for your luteal phase, you should consult your health care provider.  If your luteal phase is too short, then a fertilized egg may not have sufficient time to embed properly in the uterus before the uterus lining begins to detach for your period.  Though this defect will not hinder conception, it will hinder your ability to stay pregnant.

If you are trying to plan for pregnancy, you also need to track your cervical fluid consistency. Your cervical fluid consistency tells you when you are fertile and therefore approaching ovulation. The basal body temperature readings help you confirm that ovulation has passed. Together, they give you a complete picture of your fertility cycle.

Are you trying to figure out when fertile days are approaching in your monthly cycle?  You don't have to guess.  And you don't have to buy expensive equipment to find out.  You are considered "fertile" during the few days before ovulation day and including ovulation day. How do you know when those days are? You have to check your cervical fluid and know when you have "fertile" cervical fluid.

Checking your cervical fluid does not involve any supplies. Some suggest just swiping the opening of the vagina with a finger or toilet paper, but I have found it most helpful to insert a clean finger within the vagina and swipe around inside. I usually do it when I am in the shower squatting. This way, I get a good sample of what kind of fluid I have.

Cervical fluid changes throughout the month. After your period is over, you may find that your finger comes out pretty clean. That's normal. Within a few days, you will probably start observing some type of cervical fluid. It starts off "not fertile", which is usually sticky or gooey or dry. Then it will start to get wetter (another few days or so) and become more gooey wet or creamy. Then when you have reached your "fertile period", it will become slimy and slippery with a clear or streaked coloring. Your fertile fluid looks and feels a lot like egg whites or semen. You may even be able to stretch it between you fingers. How long fertile? you may wonder.  Your body will produce this fertile fluid for up to 5 five days or so before ovulation day.  When you find this fertile fluid, your body can support the life of sperm, which can live in this fluid for up to five days. It is during this time, that you are fertile and therefore should aim to have intercourse at least every other day throughout this time up through ovulation day.

How do you know when ovulation day is? You will observe a shift in your morning temperatures of at least .2 degrees to a higher range the day after ovulation day. You need to be taking your temperature every morning around the same time before you get out of bed to even go to the bathroom. Record these temperatures. They will stay in a low range before ovulation. My low range is between 97.0 and 97.9. After ovulation day, my temperatures rise to 98.1 to 98.4. (Each person's temps are different, but mine are pretty normal.) The last day of low temperatures is ovulation day. Your cervical fluid will dry up either the day of ovulation or the day after ovulation.

In summary, you are fertile during the days that you have fertile cervical fluid before the shift up in morning temperatures.   Join the Bonded From Birth email club and receive your special e-report to learn more about how to track your fertility signals.  Get your free fertility e-report here.

I'm sure you're already aware that drinking and smoking are big no-no's when you're trying to get pregnant.  But is just one glass of wine after work a problem?

A recent research study that looked at the effect of lifestyle and fertility found that drinking three or more alcoholic drinks a week significantly lowered a woman's chance of pregnancy, specifically if the woman already is having trouble conceiving.

Also, according to the March of Dimes, no amount of alcohol has been proven to be 100% safe in pregnancy. To be on the safe side, you should avoid drinking while you are trying to get pregnant. 

What about your partner? Drinking has also been linked to lower fertility rates in men, as well as an increased risk of miscarriage. According to one study, which evaluated the effect of alcoholic consumption on IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) success, for every additional drink the man consumed, the risk of conception not leading to a live birth increased by 2 to 8 times. This was true for beer drinking as well.  Not only should you avoid alcoholic drinks, your partner should also abandon alcohol.

If either of you are smokers, be aware that smoking has a strong impact on your fertility. When either partner smokes, you are lowering your fertility, increasing the risk of miscarriage, and putting your unborn baby's health at risk. Before you continue with trying to get pregnant, please try to quit smoking first. 

Freelance Contributor: Crystel Cortez

References:
Smoking and Reproductive Life, by the BMA's board of Science and Tobacco Control Resource Centre
Stephen EH, Chandra A. Updated projections of infertility in the United States: 1995-2025. Fertil Steril. 1998 Jul;70(1):30-4.

There is a decreased chance of getting pregnant as women age.  Fertility naturally starts to decline at age 20, but after age 35, fertility decreases rapidly. 

It is generally believed that women are born with a finite number of eggs.  By puberty this number is expected to be around 250,000!  Even though we likely only have a finite number of eggs, we have more than enough to accommodate our monthly use of a few of them over many many years.  In fact, fewer than 500 oocytes are released in a woman's life time.

How do we use up our eggs?  Each month in preparation for ovulation, the body selects several eggs, called oocytes, to continue their development, until one (and in rare cases, 2) oocyte is chosen to finish maturation.  Ovulation occurs when that chosen oocyte is released from the ovary and made available for fertilization if there are sperm present. 

As we approach menopause, our supply of eggs has diminished and ovulation may not occur on a monthly basis.  Due to irregular ovulation and diminished fertile cervical mucus, conception may be more difficult if you are over 40 years old, but it is not impossible.  Staying closely in tune with your fertility signals can help you time intercourse appropriately.

Freelance Contributor: Crystel Cortez

References:
Tietze C.  Reproductive Span and Rate of Conception Among Hutterite Women.  Fertility and Sterility.  1957; 8: 89-97. 
Marieb E. Human Anatomy and Physiology.  Seventh Edition.  Benjamin Cummings: San Francisco, 2007. 1091-92.